var gaJsHost = (("https:" == document.location.protocol) ? "https://ssl." : "http://www."); document.write(unescape("%3Cscript src='" + gaJsHost + "google-analytics.com/ga.js' type='text/javascript'%3E%3C/script%3E")); try { var pageTracker = _gat._getTracker("UA-7013774-1"); pageTracker._trackPageview(); } catch(err) {}Gemini. Fire Rabbit. INFJ. Christian. Fat. Feminist. Liberal. Independent. Southern. Kinsey 1-2. You can call me Statler. I’m an eternal tourist, a constant student, and a fandom addict. Fandoms Forever: Harry Potter, Doctor Who, Marvel, DC Ships With Which I Will Go Down: Harmony, Neville/Ginny, Balfran, Barney/Robin, Pepperony, Knope/Wyatt Other Things I Love: Hands, breakfast, gods, genealogy, live oaks, words, bon fires, green mountains, gender, pillows, web development, the media, meteor showers, night drives. This blog is HAES-friendly, LGBTQQIAA-friendly, and sex-positive. You can ask me anything. S L Y T H E R C L A W companions in the tardisTumblr (3.0; @madstatler)http://madstatler.tumblr.com/<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/4f1539650de28aad1acfcf03a5c95b0a/tumblr_mnbj3618Kh1s3s0awo2_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/cb3f46abff998fedea6a2da7b1c5853a/tumblr_mnbj3618Kh1s3s0awo1_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/>http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51345414732http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51345414732Sat, 25 May 2013 21:05:31 -0400oh dear<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/902e3c1d7107673f78b0eefed7282214/tumblr_mnds8eIe7j1qzqipho1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>This is what it takes to manage thick, naturally curly hair. Not pictured: the hair dryer, the straightener, two different shampoos, and a conditioner.</p>http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51345236770http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51345236770Sat, 25 May 2013 21:02:38 -0400my sister says i have hermione hairi actually have it cut in such a way now that it doesn't look totally catastrophic if i just let it air drybutmostlyi like it straight and smooth and shinybecause my curls are not pretty stana katic curlsor michelle rodriguez curlsmy curls are frizzy and fickle and unmanageable<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/e83d0d210c8126031e15dcefd474591b/tumblr_mnd58cXvHa1r227ato2_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/e137335d840430fc5591da91b9487dbf/tumblr_mnd58cXvHa1r227ato1_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><blockquote> <p><span>Dynamic Duo / <strong>Michelle & Vin</strong></span></p> </blockquote>http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51342543574http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51342543574Sat, 25 May 2013 20:19:49 -0400I only wish God had blessed me half as much as he blessed Michelle Rodriguezgood lord in heaven<p>As much as I hated having to keep a media diary for this course, it did give me an excuse to write about things like this:</p> <blockquote> <p class="p1"><span class="s1"><span>When selecting media for the purpose of entertainment, I have always sought out content that tells a good story and features at least one character I identify with. As a child, I enjoyed imitating media I’d seen. I have particularly fond memories of pretending to be an X-man (usually Storm or Shadowcat), or a Power Ranger (the Yellow Ranger, always), or the captain of the Millennium Falcon (Han Solo’s daughter, a character of my own imagining) on the playground at school.</span></span></p> </blockquote> <p class="p1"><span class="s1"><span>I should clarify: I was the Yellow Ranger except for that one Halloween when we couldn&#8217;t find the Yellow Ranger costume, so I settled for being the Blue Ranger, because Billy is awesome.</span></span></p> <p class="p1"><span class="s1"><span>Graduate school is a strange thing.</span></span></p>http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51338775834http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51338775834Sat, 25 May 2013 19:19:56 -0400social cognitive theory at workmass communication theory is a painesp in this classsome of my classmates are just notI meanwhy are you in a communications based graduate program if you don't like the internetseriouslyno sense at allstatler goes to grad school<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/54859c78e38497959920feef3e150195/tumblr_mnbuhy27XO1r3s0kxo3_400.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/1c8cc6080583517c78edfe00dc5f0258/tumblr_mnbuhy27XO1r3s0kxo2_r1_400.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/b09b3bdb7ef00fe524029316ef42268d/tumblr_mnbuhy27XO1r3s0kxo1_400.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/5be87e5890d1b7c3b50d9ad8c362ea8e/tumblr_mnbuhy27XO1r3s0kxo4_r1_400.gif"/><br/> <br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://not-jesus.tumblr.com/post/51262335132/so-this-happened-on-graham-norton-and-i-felt-that" target="_blank">not-jesus</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>So this happened on Graham Norton and I felt that the gifs needed to happen</p> </blockquote>http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51337649736http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51337649736Sat, 25 May 2013 19:02:10 -0400yesthey did<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/f59cdcdaef43055ae1a42c4529463817/tumblr_mn4ar9aDp61qeeqito1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/4ff66988c32c44025884c30ce93d81ba/tumblr_mn4ar9aDp61qeeqito3_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/fb7f168ce8e3f3ed5647d18c8217db22/tumblr_mn4ar9aDp61qeeqito6_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/7dac96c447576740fd382e05db4b23ed/tumblr_mn4ar9aDp61qeeqito2_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/3a50cbbbb9c386770b3f93acaa50f427/tumblr_mn4ar9aDp61qeeqito4_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/9eb7c1b894bf468b891edd270e43ddb3/tumblr_mn4ar9aDp61qeeqito5_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/e7b9c1e46840cca07c15cf47c4c8f2d7/tumblr_mn4ar9aDp61qeeqito7_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/f7be87f585ed1cd0e49cda49bdfc87a9/tumblr_mn4ar9aDp61qeeqito8_250.gif"/><br/> <br/>http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51335444463http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51335444463Sat, 25 May 2013 18:28:37 -0400STOP IT WITH YOUR HANDS ALREADYTHEY ARE RUINING MY LIFE<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/963beb9c31f9717cfeada6128f1ad32a/tumblr_mma8xw1iq51qmdqbjo3_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/9414f7a06a7e93bf15beea5400ebde05/tumblr_mma8xw1iq51qmdqbjo2_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/6be55285e78a0df2178dfe8510acfdb0/tumblr_mma8xw1iq51qmdqbjo7_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/81092523f50b81690b03f52162386832/tumblr_mma8xw1iq51qmdqbjo5_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/48d8e1c23d728a8810f434fdaa5a446b/tumblr_mma8xw1iq51qmdqbjo1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/626c924da83d59acf9e7ea53c790e1fe/tumblr_mma8xw1iq51qmdqbjo6_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/9c36dc29177f73677a46a079625db94b/tumblr_mma8xw1iq51qmdqbjo8_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/7925e4f1f87198d3a3257039a6ee288d/tumblr_mma8xw1iq51qmdqbjo4_250.gif"/><br/> <br/>http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51334801891http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51334801891Sat, 25 May 2013 18:19:06 -0400just remove that comma in the bottom left oneplease and thank youhis face thoit's a problem<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/1864037d9e31ba9b3029fcf2fab939c6/tumblr_mn7elsQ7bV1rhlgxxo1_500.png"/><br/><br/>http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51334748053http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51334748053Sat, 25 May 2013 18:18:16 -0400perfectjust perfect<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/1035ad3716670a763a334eefee2af6fa/tumblr_mkrl2neNkE1rhkcmpo2_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/04e482db6765b4c0d4dfa457da53c09f/tumblr_mkrl2neNkE1rhkcmpo5_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/965bbbb2581ef1ffe14fe525b0b69a19/tumblr_mkrl2neNkE1rhkcmpo1_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/f21bddde9bfd264a4c6842421f42288d/tumblr_mkrl2neNkE1rhkcmpo3_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/daecef86f2c205c818c26655c348cfb0/tumblr_mkrl2neNkE1rhkcmpo4_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/1b8ac4a2c17bc9649a1dbbdaaffe91ac/tumblr_mkrl2neNkE1rhkcmpo6_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://mercedelede.tumblr.com/post/47175667340/when-was-the-last-time-you-saw-a-woman-get" target="_blank">mercedelede</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tag" href="http://www.tumblr.com/tagged/when-was-the-last-time-you-saw-a-woman-get-dressed-on-screen-without-it-being-sexualized-in-any-way" target="_blank">#when was the last time you saw a woman get dressed on screen without it being sexualized in any way</a><span> </span><a class="tag" href="http://www.tumblr.com/tagged/this-show-is-perfect-ok" target="_blank">#this show is perfect ok</a> (via radiophile)</p> </blockquote> <p><a class="single-tag" href="http://retronoisette.tumblr.com/tagged/i-also-love-how-sherlock-seriously-doesn%27t-give-a-fuck" target="_blank">i also love how sherlock seriously doesn’t give a fuck</a><span> </span><a class="single-tag" href="http://retronoisette.tumblr.com/tagged/nekkid-lady%3F" target="_blank">nekkid lady?</a><span> </span><a class="single-tag" href="http://retronoisette.tumblr.com/tagged/whatever" target="_blank">whatever</a><span> </span><a class="single-tag" href="http://retronoisette.tumblr.com/tagged/i-have-thoughts" target="_blank">i have thoughts</a><span> </span><a class="single-tag" href="http://retronoisette.tumblr.com/tagged/he-doesn%27t-take-a-single-peep" target="_blank">he doesn’t take a single peep</a><span> </span><a class="single-tag" href="http://retronoisette.tumblr.com/tagged/he%27s-not-even-tempted" target="_blank">he’s not even tempted</a><span> </span><a class="single-tag" href="http://retronoisette.tumblr.com/tagged/i-love-that" target="_blank">i love that</a><span> </span><a class="single-tag" href="http://retronoisette.tumblr.com/tagged/watson-is-watson" target="_blank">watson is watson</a><span> </span><a class="single-tag" href="http://retronoisette.tumblr.com/tagged/she%27s-not-a-woman-first-and-then-an-awesome-friend%2Fconsultant%2Faid%2Fwhat-have-you" target="_blank">she’s not a woman first and then an awesome friend/consultant/aid/what have you</a></p>http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51313397411http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51313397411Sat, 25 May 2013 13:07:51 -0400yesI love it sothis show is just so good at being a good showplease television godsplease make s2 as good as s1I am not asking for betterthat would be foolish<div class="hide_overflow"><a class="username" href="http://thingsarequeer.tumblr.com/" target="_blank">thingsarequeer</a> replied to your <a class="notification_target" href="http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51312230989/i-just-cleaned-out-my-dashboard" target="_blank">post</a><span class="colon">:</span> <em><a href="http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51312230989/i-just-cleaned-out-my-dashboard" target="_blank">I just cleaned out my dashboard.</a></em></div> <blockquote>I’m fond of retronoisette, personally. But I RP with her, so I’m partial. ;) I think she’s quite smart, and she posts lots of links and thinky thoughts. (But also prettiness. Lots of prettiness.)</blockquote> <p>I spy Tony Stark (with Pepperony art, +5 to awesome), feminism-by-Matt-Fraction, and Elementary, all within the first three pages.</p> <p><em>Brilliant.</em></p>http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51312815473http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51312815473Sat, 25 May 2013 12:59:27 -0400thingsarequeerretronoisette<p>I need intelligent stans with a penchant for writing a+, quality meta about highly correct and excellent feels, esp about ladies in media, but def not about Hannibal (because I just do not have the stomach for that nonsense).</p> <p>Suggestions?</p>http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51312230989http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51312230989Sat, 25 May 2013 12:50:52 -0400will prob delete this laterwill prob repost this once or twice toosorryi just need more excellence in my dashboardi feel like i keep reblogging elyssa all the timeand i doshe's awesomemichele toobut i want morelike those kids in that commerciali want more<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/b3301c87f3f7ecb8ba27cc3247dd9d86/tumblr_mm2u4eFIOr1rwsp0so1_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/624526f60ddce51bef1bce2c4d63ea8d/tumblr_mm2u4eFIOr1rwsp0so2_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/1b663d1fada56b62e6fa021b8603701d/tumblr_mm2u4eFIOr1rwsp0so3_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/95a9c3d528590e831ba0e455cef42e3c/tumblr_mm2u4eFIOr1rwsp0so5_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/203f6ba3cc245203d0011f1deadd6b5d/tumblr_mm2u4eFIOr1rwsp0so4_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/65667622e09dbbc804a2e1bb670c9922/tumblr_mm2u4eFIOr1rwsp0so6_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://naamahdarling.tumblr.com/post/51278015219/burlesque-dancer-pinup-model-and-dance-teacher" target="_blank">naamahdarling</a>:</p> <blockquote> <blockquote> <p><em><strong>Burlesque Dancer, Pinup Model and Dance Teacher  </strong></em></p> <p><em><strong>               Linda Marraccini (Miss Dirty Martini)</strong></em></p> <p><em><strong>                       Miss Exotic World 2004</strong></em></p> </blockquote> <p>ATTN: ARTISTS</p> <p>YOU CAN HAVE HELLA MUSCLE DEFINITION UNDER FAT.</p> <p>This is what my belly looked like when I was a belly-dancer and had core muscles like you would not beLIEVE.  They were rock hard, and under a nice squoosh of fat, but the whole thing stood out like this.</p> <p>It was beautiful.  It is beautiful on her.</p> </blockquote>http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51308222307http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51308222307Sat, 25 May 2013 11:51:59 -0400damn girl!bellydancing did this?I wish I had the confidence to take one of those classesI wish<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/55a436f36688cb086ac61b801f5451aa/tumblr_mnbxnqsmQR1qb9pa3o1_500.gif"/><br/><br/>http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51303672990http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51303672990Sat, 25 May 2013 10:39:29 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/a0529ff85ba16714ac841739670c4277/tumblr_mnbr191puc1rf0f66o1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/4245b902dc4286f9b54f3ee66223f1f8/tumblr_mnbr191puc1rf0f66o2_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/51129cc5f0eaeee9f22f1db41314d9e4/tumblr_mnbr191puc1rf0f66o3_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/9cecce2fc2212cb22de9e77c37e3fae5/tumblr_mnbr191puc1rf0f66o4_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/f35f408a0038db8135df994f8efda91f/tumblr_mnbr191puc1rf0f66o5_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/2ebf90a92cc6ddf95cf77cf66011fd3c/tumblr_mnbr191puc1rf0f66o6_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><blockquote> <p><small>Some things <em><strong>never</strong> </em>change.</small></p> </blockquote>http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51299174376http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51299174376Sat, 25 May 2013 09:14:07 -0400THE MOST JOY<iframe width="400" height="225" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/ZwS14TiO7Pk?wmode=transparent&autohide=1&egm=0&hd=1&iv_load_policy=3&modestbranding=1&rel=0&showinfo=0&showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><br/><br/><p><a href="http://miss-love.tumblr.com/post/51278813742" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank">miss-love</a>:</p> <blockquote><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://itfeelslikegold.tumblr.com/post/51255533381/getbackinthewagonwoman-freshprincesubs-will" target="_blank">itfeelslikegold</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://getbackinthewagonwoman.tumblr.com/post/51254636870/freshprincesubs-will-jaden-smith-performing" target="_blank">getbackinthewagonwoman</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://freshprincesubs.tumblr.com/post/51248247713/will-jaden-smith-performing-on-the-graham-norton" target="_blank">freshprincesubs</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>Will & Jaden Smith performing on the Graham Norton Show a Switch/Fresh Prince of Bel Air theme tune remix with an appearance from DJ Jazzy Jeff & Alfonso Ribeiro :)</p> <p>aka THE BEST THING EVER!!</p> </blockquote> <p>i’ve never seen bradley cooper happier</p> </blockquote> <p>That was perfect.</p> </blockquote> <p>Nothing has ever been better</p></blockquote>http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51299033810http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51299033810Sat, 25 May 2013 09:11:04 -0400SO MUCH JOY<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/815d6ccdd2d2a3b91390ba29d8a6d72b/tumblr_mnca3t65ES1qc8jh0o1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/16a900dd44716d681eaace5a90234391/tumblr_mnca3t65ES1qc8jh0o4_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/5281bf97bfa01a0eeb20f7781ab68227/tumblr_mnca3t65ES1qc8jh0o2_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/6c2a3c25e699e4858bc1bd8217a539fe/tumblr_mnca3t65ES1qc8jh0o5_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/07f1285bc0ccb0e4d0291d429b05dcf8/tumblr_mnca3t65ES1qc8jh0o3_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/13d026538ba1b4a328a1b716de2dc7bf/tumblr_mnca3t65ES1qc8jh0o6_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><p><a href="http://songsofwolves.tumblr.com/post/51290709469/sandandglass-watch-it" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank">songsofwolves</a>:</p> <blockquote><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://sandandglass.tumblr.com/post/51283069629/watch-it" target="_blank">sandandglass</a><span>:</span></p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZwS14TiO7Pk" target="_blank">Watch it</a></p> </blockquote></blockquote>http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51298969578http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51298969578Sat, 25 May 2013 09:09:39 -0400this gifset brings me such joy<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/d4059c0a7d6bf09090de889c9fa355fd/tumblr_mhrkioh4rf1qdsevco2_500.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/8548f56d4cf4f6ae9779f1491330fd44/tumblr_mhrkioh4rf1qdsevco1_500.gif"/><br/> <br/><blockquote> <p><strong><small>Han & Gisele in <em>‘Fast 6’</em></small></strong></p> </blockquote>http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51283084710http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51283084710Sat, 25 May 2013 01:33:53 -0400CAN WE TALK ABOUT THE TOUCHINGCAN WE TALK ABOUT THAT FIRST GIFHE HAS TO BE TOUCHING HERIT'S THE ONLY WAY HE KNOWS SHE'S OKAYAND THEN THE PLANE HAPPENEDOH NOi'm going to need a momentor six<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/1068a97fa6aa72458cf81966b28ab17b/tumblr_ml94twf5MM1qgnd6ko1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/a62285254951632214f251dde107dd1d/tumblr_ml94twf5MM1qgnd6ko2_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/92fdd0872803bdc10af8486e70fc1ca8/tumblr_ml94twf5MM1qgnd6ko5_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/9b185cc603f4bae1437d51bfe56ce5e5/tumblr_ml94twf5MM1qgnd6ko3_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/87e1c9ece6d89bf34bad5d87bab076e6/tumblr_ml94twf5MM1qgnd6ko4_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/7704ad38c2e81f4e7973f335b59034a4/tumblr_ml94twf5MM1qgnd6ko6_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><blockquote> <div><span><small>James T. Kirk</small></span></div> </blockquote> <p></p>http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51282501092http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51282501092Sat, 25 May 2013 01:22:24 -0400THE LEAST REGALoh my godhow did we get to gif 6how is he still livingactually not sure whether I am asking about cfine or captain perfect hairmaybe bothhttp://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51280141558http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51280141558Sat, 25 May 2013 00:40:00 -0400and all of its problemsand the fact that i had to pay for letty with BOTH my other babiesso unfairfast and furious<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lgjr1k38v01qeev7oo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51270370207http://madstatler.tumblr.com/post/51270370207Fri, 24 May 2013 22:17:01 -0400tearstears on the side of my face